I'm A Health Care Professional

Yes, I am. Because I am a health care professional people seem to often have no qualms in showing me stuff that I would really just as soon not see. Like the guy who wanted to draw his own blood but needed my help to switch the tubes? Yeah, pierced penis and all that was way more than I wanted to see. Men walking up and down the halls with their asses hanging out of their gown cause of course it's a hospital and we're all nurses and doctors. Sure but please cover your hiney cause I don't feel a need to look at your saggy drooping butt.

My current job is an office job. I interview people before surgical procedures. Yet the other day I had a patient feel the need to lift her shirt to show me her boob with the strange lump. Not really what I wanted to see. I was concerned at first by the appearance but once she had informed me that she had shown her doctor and they were going to check on things I couldn't help but wonder why she felt the need to show it to me too. Holy hell.

I remember one of my grand mothers would always flirt with the male nurses and aides. She was in the hospital one time and I took her a clean gown. She saw one of the guys she liked in the hall and started stripping with the door open. Freaked me out like no one's business.

Yes I've seen it all. Mostly when I really didn't want to. I know that many of us in the IF community have been in positions where we've had all kinds of people looking at our girly bits or boy junk and to a point that's necessary but I simply do not feel a need to drop my pants and show my nurse or the phlebotomist my va-jay-jay. Really. They don't need to see that stuff. I'm also all for being comfortable in your own skin but again, time and a place. Why is it that some people feel the it's ok to show me whatever just because I wear scrubs?